tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6946990888543180506.post6530909344267756347..comments2023-10-19T17:55:38.326-07:00Comments on Oliver's Journey: Grieving... I hate grieving...Stacyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10897536520581066280noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6946990888543180506.post-3659794474686828222012-11-14T10:07:30.315-08:002012-11-14T10:07:30.315-08:00My heart hurts so much for you right now-I have NE...My heart hurts so much for you right now-I have NEVER experienced the loss of a child and I can't imagine telling anyone how they *should* be feeling? What a joke. I don't know you personally and have just stumbled upon Oliver's FB page and blog because a child I love dearly is dying from DIPG and I'm trying to find some shred of reason or hope to it all. <br />I'm so sorry you feel alone and angry and sad but you absolutely have every right to be. I have a 7 year old son and 3 year old daughter and the very thought of watching them slip away from me forever is crippling. I'm constantly amazed at all of you courageous parents of DIPG kids who still can even type these awesome blog posts, let alone function in the world. <br /> Though you may not know or care, you inspire me. And my friend Ginger who is London's mother will probably for sure have these exact feelings after he is gone. I am going to point her here, to Oliver's blog to show her she isn't alone. Just like you are not. <br />Xo summersummer Aiellonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6946990888543180506.post-30476718757074048812012-11-10T08:42:34.675-08:002012-11-10T08:42:34.675-08:00To the lady who posted first on this entry....unti...To the lady who posted first on this entry....until you have walked in this mother's shoes, you should stfu! Ignorance is bliss! You better hope you never find yourself facing the SAME circumstances. NOTHING can be compared to the loss of YOUR child. AND there is no right way or wrong way to grieve. Do us all a favor and do not come back to this blog again!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6946990888543180506.post-60308317556491931302012-09-23T21:01:10.673-07:002012-09-23T21:01:10.673-07:00Wow, you always have such a way with words. I have...Wow, you always have such a way with words. I have a 2 year old son, and in no way know how you're feeling but I'd like to be your friend. I've followed your/Oliver's story for awhile and was extremely hurt for you and your family. I may be half way across the nation, but I can be quite a good listener. Feel free to bend my ear anytime you need to. You're a good Momma bear and you should'nt feel guilt, even though that's perfectly normal. I pray that things will get better for you and that you can manage to cope in some way. I'm here if you ever need me.<br />Just a friend.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10089017065064535088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6946990888543180506.post-57496244765926064542012-09-21T13:06:06.921-07:002012-09-21T13:06:06.921-07:00you will be blessed for all that you have done and...you will be blessed for all that you have done and continue to doAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6946990888543180506.post-90067707544845502382012-09-21T07:15:48.727-07:002012-09-21T07:15:48.727-07:00I really think you need some inpatient help. You c...I really think you need some inpatient help. You can just keep popping pills to drown out what happened and although he is gone you still have other kids to raise. Don't let them feel like they weren't as good as Oliver was and that they don't get to have a good mom. You need help. I can't imagine what you are going through and I'm so sorry for your loss but at some point we all have to pick ourselves up from the corner and make the people who have passed proud of us. I can tell you I'm in my early twenties and I've had a hard life. My dad passed when I was 16. I got pregnant at 18 I had a disabled child at 19 who probably doesn't have a long life expectancy. I had 6 people die in my family within 2 1/2 years no grandparents left have issues with one of my sisters, but I stil pick myself up from the corner and make them proud. I am now a nurse and make my son proud. You need to do the same. My Oliver and your other kids proud. Get help. I see way too many people in my job strung out on pills constantly. I wish the best for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com